one of the things that stuck with me was how i think part of Dan's condition is that when things go well he's prone to self-destruct. its similar to how my mom is also as she has been diganosed with schzoiphrenia/bi-polar.
i think how do you help?
like my mom is very similar in many ways and her worse flaw is that she got into bad drugs. i conviced her to stop with crack after taking oxycontin. then i was trying to be more encourgaging by buying her a stop smoking inhaler cigarette thing. then that very same night after i complemented how much better she's been looking physically she relapsed to smoking crack
i made it obvious i don't approve of crack before as it deteriates her health horribly so she then went into guilt mode and i said don't bother being sorry.
which brings me to think why bother being upset(you're own personal feelings) with a person with these conditions when they do things that are upsetting. i think that dissapointing the people they love is involved in this disease in a weird way. somehow they need positive encouragement, but i think i've learned any sense of negativity is useless for both.
i don't know. *edit. i think you just do your best to help/be nice is my answer. silly love, too.