Hi guys, and gals

Been away from my 'puter...FINALLY healed up enuf to actually have some FUN!...in the real world, that is...
Anyway -
I love that the major players here have replied to this post.
I intended to get feedback...and certainly would never proceed with a 'surprise party' for Dan unless his family, and biggest fans, thought it was a good idea...
PLUS, I didn't intend to make it 'an open invitation' to just any ole fan...sorry, newbies...I see now that posting about it on here was not wise, but I am impulsive about fun ideas...especially the idea of contributing to Dan's happiness...
OK...so - no 'surprise parties'

at HIS house.
BUT, there WILL be a housewarming gift from his on-line fans...and I WANT, very much, to co-ordinate it.
I can collect funds...once we all agree on how much from each person is reasonable and then, I suppose, after we feel that all of those wanting to contribute have done so, we can decide, via a vote thread, on here, what exactly to get him...
How's that all sound?
I have a PayPal account - only used lately to purchase (from various sources) the 35 original DJ drawings I now proudly own, but I imagine that I can use it to collect funds for the gift? - I will happily pay the fee I'd be charged for receiving the money...
It entails a transfer of funds -
I can imagine doing it that way, and by also taking money orders/checks, via my PO box...
We can start a tally thread...
Those who contribute can state that they did, add a personal message for Dan, to be included with the gift, and also add the transaction number/check #, as proof of their payment...and if I encounter any problems with payments, I can contact individuals privately.
Does that sound feasible, my friends?
OK...now I want to add a few personal, yet public, replies:
Jeff, T - VERY good that you mentioned the privacy thing. And, of course, no unknown to Dan fans would have been invited....but, I see how my post seemed as if it could be non-secure for Dan...MY BAD FAUX PAS for posting about it on here....
but, at least now the idea of a joint fan group house-warming gift is going

Anyway, I do not see anything in your post to criticize, Jeff and, THANKS for expressing enthusiasm for my kind thoughts privately, man...Glad to see that you know me, and you know I have nothing but good intent when it comes to Dan. ...and also glad to see that you open yourself up to 'raining on the parade' type stuff if you focus only on the negatives in posting...
Jaimi - Love ya! Thanks, also, for your post, and for sharing what Dan told you. I will see him next month, but will not bring this up...even though Jeff said it's best to ask Dan...I, honestly, see Jeff's point about it all, and I do not want to 'pressure' Dan in any way about a party...
Obviously, if he ever wants to have a party at HIS house, I feel very confidant that he will, and he will be in charge of who and when...
To 'all concerned parties' -
Forgive me, but I need to say this publically...
PLEASE stop ALL personal insults, on here, and hopefully everywhere.
It is not right.
Sorry to have to ask that, but it's PAST time for all of those with 'grievances' on here, to 'just let go'....and maybe even commit, publically, to starting fresh, with full apolgies and forgiveness, if possible...and then, perhaps just keeping your distance, in every possible way, if necessary, to keep the peace? Not sure what else to say...nothing left to say about 'that stuff' ...
To Henry - glad you want to contribute to a gift

To Will - sounds like you'll be in on that, too

OK...gotta run...doc appt...it's 6 weeks tomorrow that I'll be 'post-op'...
I think he'll let me exercise again...YIPPEE...

With love, Gina
Ps - haven't had time to fully read the personal e-mails I got about this...will do that tonight...just wanted to turn this now towards a joint gift ony...